12.12.11 In Memoriam

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My friend Andy Jacobson died on Saturday. He was only 52, and he left behind an incredible wife and two amazing teenagers. I saw it coming but I wasn't prepared. I wanted more time with him, a chance to fix him the Brussels sprouts salad that was the subject of his last tweet to me. In response to my posting this video on the subject, he wrote: "Looks so good! Will you make them???? Pleeeeeze." I never got around to it. Like my father, he had stomach cancer, so he might not have been able to eat it anyway. But still. I'm making it now, Andy, and I'm hoping that whoever else tries the recipe below will think of you, too. An aesthete, a mensch, a quibbler, a devoted father and husband, a loyal friend, a merry prankster. One of G's pals from way back, and like family to us, he got himself licensed so he could perform our wedding ceremony, and he milked that crowd for laughs. The gods are surely smiling today.

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photo by gluttonforlife

The Fudehouse video pretty much says it all as far as a shaved Brussels sprout salad goes, but I'm also including my own version, which includes minced shallots. Feel free to substitute pecorino for the Parmesan. Make sure to shave the sprouts very finely—a super-sharp knife works well if you don't have a mandoline—and then add a pungent dressing. I like a combination of walnut and olive oils, the tartness of lemon, the bite of mustard and the tang of pecorino. But I've also used capers, pine nuts, olives, champagne vinegar and even mustard oil (not all at once). As with everything, once you learn the basic technique, you're free to experiment.

I'll miss Andy terribly and my heart feels as heavy as a knish. But I've learned that grieving takes place while life continues on, and sooner or later it's time for dinner.


Shaved Brussels Sprout Salad

serves 6
  • — 1/2 cup minced shallots
  • — 3 tablespoons fresh lemon juice
  • — 1 teaspoon raw honey
  • — 2 teaspoons Dijon mustard
  • — 2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil
  • — 1 tablespoon walnut oil
  • — 3 cups Brussels sprouts (use larger ones if possible)
  • — 3/4 cup chopped toasted walnuts
  • — 1/2 cup finely grated Parmesan

Soak the shallot in a small bowl of cold water for 15 minutes while you prepare the rest of the ingredients.

In a small bowl, whisk together the lemon juice, honey, mustard and a pinch of salt and pepper. Whisk in the oils until the dressing is emulsified. Set aside.

Trim the Brussels sprouts, slicing off the root end and removing any bruised outer leaves. With a very sharp knife or a mandoline, finely shave the sprouts.

When you're done, use your fingers to gently separate the leaves.

Drain the shallots.

Pile the shaved sprouts into a serving bowl and toss gently with the shallots and three-quarters of the dressing. Fold in the nuts and cheese, taste and adjust seasonings, drizzling with additional dressing if needed. Serve immediately.

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What a lovely tribute, Laura.
Pauline Gaines on December 12, 2011 at 9:29 am —
You made me cry--well put. Rest peacefully, Andy.
Lisa on December 12, 2011 at 11:05 am —
Beautiful post, I'm so sorry for your loss xxoo
Fabula on December 12, 2011 at 11:29 am —
Dear Laura, Sending sweet mustard to your knish-y heart. I am sure Andy felt your love for him and this tribute is testimony to how to appreciate a friend. I will make the salad and honor friends, the longer the better and funny surely helps in all that. xoxooxS
Suzi Banks Baum on December 12, 2011 at 11:42 am —
Thanks, Suzi, and everyone for your very kind words. They help. xo
laura on December 12, 2011 at 1:26 pm —
so beautiful, laura. i often feel the friend/food connection and think it's such a special way to keep someone around. i will definitely try this recipe and think of your friend, andy. xoxo
renee cohen on December 12, 2011 at 3:58 pm —
Wonderful tribute Laura. So sorry for your loss.
Margit on December 12, 2011 at 5:15 pm —
So sorry for both your and G's loss. It's hard to watch our all too young friends pass on
Robert on December 13, 2011 at 4:06 am —
i'm so sorry for your loss. sending light and love to you all.
giovanna on December 14, 2011 at 5:13 am —